This year at Christmas, I have been thinking a lot about a very familiar expression. Perhaps you've heard it, too. "To whom much is given, much will be expected." You see, it has been made very apparent to me over the past several months that I have been given a wonderful life! My family has been blessed beyond imagination! Sometimes we can have a tendency to take blessings somewhat for granted, even forgeting where they are coming from. Sometimes we need a "holiday" like Christmas to remind us how truly blessed we really are.
Throughout 2008, we have been offered numerous opportunities to give. We have been prompted to share what we have been given with many along our path (family, friends, neighbors, people in our community, etc.). I am happy to report that we have responded to several of those promptings, and with JOY and hopefully a very generous spirit. However, I am sad to report that we have not responded to all of the requests that have come our way. Maybe it is unrealistic to think that we could respond to all the requests that are out there; there will always be more "need" than resources to satisfy the need it seems. But, I've had to ask myself this very penetrating question: "Why have we balked at some of the requests, but responded to several others?" I don't really have a hard and fast answer to my own question. I can only ascertain that God prompts us to respond to some needs, but potentially tells us to take a pass on others?
Each Christmas Eve, I have a special tradition of calling some dear friends of mine, Herrick and Mary Smith, in Florida. They are still a wonderful model and example to me of incredible "giving." I try to emulate their totally selfless generosity whenever possible, but especially at Christmas. You see, back in December of 1979, I found myself alone (and away from any family or friends) in Gainesville, Florida, at Christmas time. I was about to begin a "temporary" job of teaching Landscape Architecture at the University of Florida. After only meeting me once or twice, and knowing me for just two or three days, they still chose to invite me to attend Christmas Eve services at their church. They also invited me back to their home to share Christmas dinner with their family and friends. Amazing! It wasn't like they were extremely wealthy or the food/gifts were anything special. They had a very modest home and it really wasn't fancy at all. But, the way they were so willing to give whatever they had to someone like me who had a need is still an incredible witness to me of the expression "to whom much is given, much will be expected." Out of hearts filled with the love of Christ, they gave. And they gave willingly and abundantly. Wow! Thanks Herrick and Mary for being such great examples to me of "to whom much is given, much will be expected."
Therefore, I try to model Herrick and Mary's generosity to my family also and live by the overall intent of this expression - especially the second half of it. Not in a legalistic or "payback" sort of way (God really doesn't operate like that). It's not like we have to give because we have been given to. No, rather it is because there is a basic responsibility that goes along with abundant blessings. We have the privilege of sharing the abundance we have been given. I am so very grateful for that privilege.
God help me to have a pure heart to share, and the willingness to see the needs You have placed in my path...
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Sunday, December 21, 2008
It's a Wonderful Life
Each year about this time (if you are a traditionalist like me), you probably sit down in front of the TV with a bowl of popcorn and watch one of the most well-known, well-loved movies ever - It's a Wonderful Life. Starring Jimmy Stewart and Donna Reed (as well as several others), this movie is one of my all-time favorites! To my continued amazement, when I watch it each year, I give it my full attention (even though I've probably seen it several dozen times!). And even though I know the complete story by heart and obviously remember from year to year how it ends, I still get red in the face and tears start automatically flowing down my cheeks at certain scenes. Amazing! I'm such a sap! It's just a movie, for goodness sake! But, an incredible one with a terrific message...
This week I had my annual It's a Wonderful Life - "George Bailey" moment. I usually have one of these leading up to the Christmas holiday, and this year it came one week before Christmas. No, I haven't watched the movie yet. Rather, my "moment" came when I watched my wonderful "angel" sing in the Southwest Airlines choir. It caught me completely off-guard. Didn't see it coming at all...
You see, in some respects, this has been one of the best years of my life! But, in other respects, the past three months have been a real bummer... As with George Bailey, I guess I had kind of lost perspective. I started seeing the "bad" and the "problems" with everything. That was all I could think about. It was starting to consume me. For example, there was that someone who had dreamed big and moved on to become a huge success elsewhere (similar to George's brother Harry, and his friend Sam Wainwright) while I stayed in one place with the same job seemingly forever. There were those people in my life that needed help in the past, and now needed even more help from me while I was weary of giving it (similar to how George may have felt about Uncle Billy, old Mr. Gower and/or Violet). There was that painfully antagonistic person in my life who seemed to do things contrary to what I considered good values and sound thinking and still got away with it (similar to old man Potter). Finally, there was my sweet family who loved me greatly and tried so hard to make everything in my life special, but all I could see was their occasional slip-ups and selfishly harp on their actions/behaviors (similar to how George reacted to Mary and his children when his problems and the pressure they created consumed him on Christmas Eve).
Then it happened. Seeing my wonderful daughter Katie sing with the Southwest Airlines choir, seeing the smile on her face and the obvious JOY she was experiencing started me on the way to much needed repentence and tears - tears of confession and tears of gratefulness over how much the Lord has forgiven me and blessed me beyond my imagination. I was really caught up short. It climaxed when a young man in the choir sang "O Holy Night" magnificently! Read some of the incredible lyrics to this song below.
O Holy Night! The stars are brightly shining,
It is the night of the dear Saviour's birth.
Long lay the world in sin and error pining.
Till He appeared and the Spirit felt its worth.
A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices,
For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn.
Fall on your knees! Oh, hear the angel voices!
O night divine, the night when Christ was born;
O night, O Holy Night, O night divine!
Led by the light of faith serenely beaming,
With glowing hearts by His cradle we stand.
O'er the world a star is sweetly gleaming,
Now come the wisemen from out of the Orient land.
The King of Kings lay thus in lowly manger;
In all our trials born to be our friends.
He knows our need, our weakness is no stranger,
Behold your King! Before him lowly bend!
Behold your King! Before him lowly bend!
Truly He taught us to love one another,
His law is love and His gospel is peace.
Chains He shall break, for the slave is our brother.
And in His name all oppression shall cease.
Sweet hymns of joy in grateful chorus raise we,
With all our hearts we praise His holy name.
Christ is the Lord! Then ever, ever praise we,
His power and glory ever more proclaim!
His power and glory ever more proclaim!
Thanks, Katie (my Clarence), and the Southwest Airlines choir for ministering to me in such a powerful way! Despite all of our problems, despite the fact that we may have sacrificed dreams on behalf of others, we still can say "It's a Wonderful Life" because of what the Lord has done! Joy to the World and Merry Christmas!
This week I had my annual It's a Wonderful Life - "George Bailey" moment. I usually have one of these leading up to the Christmas holiday, and this year it came one week before Christmas. No, I haven't watched the movie yet. Rather, my "moment" came when I watched my wonderful "angel" sing in the Southwest Airlines choir. It caught me completely off-guard. Didn't see it coming at all...
You see, in some respects, this has been one of the best years of my life! But, in other respects, the past three months have been a real bummer... As with George Bailey, I guess I had kind of lost perspective. I started seeing the "bad" and the "problems" with everything. That was all I could think about. It was starting to consume me. For example, there was that someone who had dreamed big and moved on to become a huge success elsewhere (similar to George's brother Harry, and his friend Sam Wainwright) while I stayed in one place with the same job seemingly forever. There were those people in my life that needed help in the past, and now needed even more help from me while I was weary of giving it (similar to how George may have felt about Uncle Billy, old Mr. Gower and/or Violet). There was that painfully antagonistic person in my life who seemed to do things contrary to what I considered good values and sound thinking and still got away with it (similar to old man Potter). Finally, there was my sweet family who loved me greatly and tried so hard to make everything in my life special, but all I could see was their occasional slip-ups and selfishly harp on their actions/behaviors (similar to how George reacted to Mary and his children when his problems and the pressure they created consumed him on Christmas Eve).
Then it happened. Seeing my wonderful daughter Katie sing with the Southwest Airlines choir, seeing the smile on her face and the obvious JOY she was experiencing started me on the way to much needed repentence and tears - tears of confession and tears of gratefulness over how much the Lord has forgiven me and blessed me beyond my imagination. I was really caught up short. It climaxed when a young man in the choir sang "O Holy Night" magnificently! Read some of the incredible lyrics to this song below.
O Holy Night! The stars are brightly shining,
It is the night of the dear Saviour's birth.
Long lay the world in sin and error pining.
Till He appeared and the Spirit felt its worth.
A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices,
For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn.
Fall on your knees! Oh, hear the angel voices!
O night divine, the night when Christ was born;
O night, O Holy Night, O night divine!
Led by the light of faith serenely beaming,
With glowing hearts by His cradle we stand.
O'er the world a star is sweetly gleaming,
Now come the wisemen from out of the Orient land.
The King of Kings lay thus in lowly manger;
In all our trials born to be our friends.
He knows our need, our weakness is no stranger,
Behold your King! Before him lowly bend!
Behold your King! Before him lowly bend!
Truly He taught us to love one another,
His law is love and His gospel is peace.
Chains He shall break, for the slave is our brother.
And in His name all oppression shall cease.
Sweet hymns of joy in grateful chorus raise we,
With all our hearts we praise His holy name.
Christ is the Lord! Then ever, ever praise we,
His power and glory ever more proclaim!
His power and glory ever more proclaim!
Thanks, Katie (my Clarence), and the Southwest Airlines choir for ministering to me in such a powerful way! Despite all of our problems, despite the fact that we may have sacrificed dreams on behalf of others, we still can say "It's a Wonderful Life" because of what the Lord has done! Joy to the World and Merry Christmas!
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Are we becoming the "Divided" States of America?
Red states vs. blue states. Conservatives vs. liberals. Republicans vs. Democrats. Independent people (financially) vs. dependent people (financially). PC users vs. Mac users. Suburban/rural dwellers vs. urban/city dwellers. Pro-life people vs. abortion rights advocates. Churched people vs. unchurched people. Christianity vs. all other "religions."
What ever happened to the "United" States of America? I am wondering, were we ever that "united" anyway? Wasn't it Abraham Lincoln who said in a speech given in 1858 these words (from Jesus' thoughts in Matthew 12:24-26; Mark 3:23-25; and Luke 11:16-18): "A nation divided against itself cannot stand?"
So how did we get to this place where we are so divided? Seems like we've taken our "independence" and overall selfishness as human beings a little bit too far. Many of us have fallen into the traps set by our culture's "ME" generation and the tendency to think that the whole world revolves around "me" and my wishes/desires/preferences, etc. The greater good of all people doesn't seem to be on our radar screens any more (like it might have been in Abraham Lincoln's time and before?). Rather, it is all about "me" and the heck with everyone else!
I decided this week as I traveled in the eastern part of the United States that I would make a more concerted effort to look for things that "unify" versus things that "divide." Even when someone is doing something that is strange/unfamiliar to me and/or believing something that I don't really agree with or think is wrong, I will try to look for even a very small part to focus on that actually unifies us versus dividing us. What would happen if we all tried to look for things that unify versus things that divide? Wouldn't our country be a much better place for all of us to live if we did this?
As a Christ follower, I am now obligated to extend grace (unmerited favor) to those I come into contact with. After all, isn't that what God did with me when I was completely lost in my sin and in need of salvation (a salvation only received through belief in Jesus' death on the cross and subsequent miraculours resurrection)? Grace does not mean that you compromise God's Word and/or principles of the Christian faith. No, it means that you extend "slack" and understanding to others, and look for ways to agree with them, building paths of understanding and reconciliation wherever you can.
The "Divided States of America?" Don't let it happen. Counteract the prevalent tendencies that are out there to continually divide us, and look for ways that we can be united again. I believe the future of our great country depends on each and every one of us looking for ways we can do this.
What are you doing - what am I doing - to foster unity versus division? Think about it...
What ever happened to the "United" States of America? I am wondering, were we ever that "united" anyway? Wasn't it Abraham Lincoln who said in a speech given in 1858 these words (from Jesus' thoughts in Matthew 12:24-26; Mark 3:23-25; and Luke 11:16-18): "A nation divided against itself cannot stand?"
So how did we get to this place where we are so divided? Seems like we've taken our "independence" and overall selfishness as human beings a little bit too far. Many of us have fallen into the traps set by our culture's "ME" generation and the tendency to think that the whole world revolves around "me" and my wishes/desires/preferences, etc. The greater good of all people doesn't seem to be on our radar screens any more (like it might have been in Abraham Lincoln's time and before?). Rather, it is all about "me" and the heck with everyone else!
I decided this week as I traveled in the eastern part of the United States that I would make a more concerted effort to look for things that "unify" versus things that "divide." Even when someone is doing something that is strange/unfamiliar to me and/or believing something that I don't really agree with or think is wrong, I will try to look for even a very small part to focus on that actually unifies us versus dividing us. What would happen if we all tried to look for things that unify versus things that divide? Wouldn't our country be a much better place for all of us to live if we did this?
As a Christ follower, I am now obligated to extend grace (unmerited favor) to those I come into contact with. After all, isn't that what God did with me when I was completely lost in my sin and in need of salvation (a salvation only received through belief in Jesus' death on the cross and subsequent miraculours resurrection)? Grace does not mean that you compromise God's Word and/or principles of the Christian faith. No, it means that you extend "slack" and understanding to others, and look for ways to agree with them, building paths of understanding and reconciliation wherever you can.
The "Divided States of America?" Don't let it happen. Counteract the prevalent tendencies that are out there to continually divide us, and look for ways that we can be united again. I believe the future of our great country depends on each and every one of us looking for ways we can do this.
What are you doing - what am I doing - to foster unity versus division? Think about it...
Saturday, December 6, 2008
The Midshipmen's Prayer of the Naval Academy
I was traveling most of the past week on business (to Princeton, New Jersey and Washington, D.C.). Traveling always affords me with plenty of opportunities to do reading that I seldom take time to do when I am at the office or at home. The magazines and periodicals and letters in the mail just stack up on me in my "inbox" and have to wait for the next trip to get read. I sometimes feel sorry for the people sitting next to me on the planes as I just get into my seat and read. Very little conversation with my traveling companions...
I also was involved in some work project meetings this week that included some members of our military personnel. Fine people. Really exceptional folks who are to be admired. Whenever I am around military personnel I am always impressed with how focused and mission-oriented they are. I'm also impressed with how dignified and above-board they seem to be. There's just something different about them and their approach to life, it seems.
So, it probably was not an accident that within the magazine I was reading on the plane I "found" the Midshipmen's Prayer of the Naval Academy. It really jumped out at me. I read it and then thought, "Wow. What if I approached each new day with these words on my lips? What kind of impact might that have on my behavior and the behavior of those around me?"
Today, I am going to try to accept the challenge of reading this prayer frequently and see what kind of difference it makes in my life. I challenge each of you reading this to consider doing the same thing.
"Keep me true to my best self, guarding me against dishonesty in purpose and deed... Protect those in whose love I live. Give me the will to do my best and to accept my share of responsibilities with a strong heart and a cheerful mind. Make me considerate of those entrusted to my leadership and faithful to the duties my country has entrusted in me. If I am inclined to doubt, steady my faith; if I am tempted, make me strong to resist; if I should miss the mark, give me the courage to try again. Guide me with the light of truth and keep before me the life of Him by whose example and help I trust to obtain the answer to my prayer, Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen."
I also was involved in some work project meetings this week that included some members of our military personnel. Fine people. Really exceptional folks who are to be admired. Whenever I am around military personnel I am always impressed with how focused and mission-oriented they are. I'm also impressed with how dignified and above-board they seem to be. There's just something different about them and their approach to life, it seems.
So, it probably was not an accident that within the magazine I was reading on the plane I "found" the Midshipmen's Prayer of the Naval Academy. It really jumped out at me. I read it and then thought, "Wow. What if I approached each new day with these words on my lips? What kind of impact might that have on my behavior and the behavior of those around me?"
Today, I am going to try to accept the challenge of reading this prayer frequently and see what kind of difference it makes in my life. I challenge each of you reading this to consider doing the same thing.
"Keep me true to my best self, guarding me against dishonesty in purpose and deed... Protect those in whose love I live. Give me the will to do my best and to accept my share of responsibilities with a strong heart and a cheerful mind. Make me considerate of those entrusted to my leadership and faithful to the duties my country has entrusted in me. If I am inclined to doubt, steady my faith; if I am tempted, make me strong to resist; if I should miss the mark, give me the courage to try again. Guide me with the light of truth and keep before me the life of Him by whose example and help I trust to obtain the answer to my prayer, Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen."
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
And then there is Someone who will never change...
In my Bible, the heading for Hebrews 13 says The Changeless Christ. As a matter of fact, in verse 8 it says this:
"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever."
What a comfort to know that my Savior does not change! In a world that almost worships change and considers all change to be good-better-best, I am so glad that Christ does not need to change. He is the same yesterday and today and forever, and that's really O.K. What would He even need to change? He's perfect. He paid it all. He's at the right hand of God. He's all we'll ever need, just as He is right now. Praise God for that!
Now "us" on the other hand, not so much. We need to change. Not to try and win favor, or to clean ourselves up to be acceptable. For those of you who are followers of Christ, we need to change because we are continuously in the process of sanctification until we see our Savior face-to-face. He loves us so much that He doesn't want us to stay the same.
What is Jesus asking you to change today? What is Jesus asking ME to change today?
Hebrews 13. It's good reading.
"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever."
What a comfort to know that my Savior does not change! In a world that almost worships change and considers all change to be good-better-best, I am so glad that Christ does not need to change. He is the same yesterday and today and forever, and that's really O.K. What would He even need to change? He's perfect. He paid it all. He's at the right hand of God. He's all we'll ever need, just as He is right now. Praise God for that!
Now "us" on the other hand, not so much. We need to change. Not to try and win favor, or to clean ourselves up to be acceptable. For those of you who are followers of Christ, we need to change because we are continuously in the process of sanctification until we see our Savior face-to-face. He loves us so much that He doesn't want us to stay the same.
What is Jesus asking you to change today? What is Jesus asking ME to change today?
Hebrews 13. It's good reading.
Who's allowed to change?
As the old sayings go, "What goes around, comes around" and "Turn about is fair play." I probably had this coming, but I really didn't see it until it was upon me. You see, this happened to my parents years ago, too. What am I talking about? Change - and who's allowed to change.
In late December, 1976 (about seven months after I graduated from college), my parents' house on the farm burned to the ground (it was actually New Year's Eve, I think). Fortunately, both Mom and Dad were able to get out before the fire consumed their house completely. But, they lost a lot - not the least of which was their home and a lot of their belongings. Soon after the fire, some friends of theirs invited them to come to Arizona for some time away from winter in Iowa and the devastation of the fire. They stayed out there a week or two and had a great time. When they returned, they announced to my sisters and me that they had purchased a lot and were going to be building a house in Sun City. They were planning on moving there later that year.
What? What do you mean you are moving to Arizona? How dare you decide something like that without checking with me first? I'm not sure if my sisters were as upset/perplexed as I was since they were both already married and raising families and such. But I was only a few months out of college, working my first job and living in St. Louis. If they moved to Arizona, what if I wanted to go "home" to visit them? Arizona wasn't "home" - Iowa was my home! How dare they change my world like that? What were they thinking?
Then a small voice inside of me said, "Well, what about you? You moved to St. Louis and didn't check with them first before you did that. So what's the problem? Are you saying that YOU can change all you want and they just have to accept it, but they can't change anything in their life at all? Is that what you are saying?"
Wow. Talk about being caught up short. It really made me think. Who was I to decide what is best for them and/or try to manipulate what they could (or couldn't) do? Talk about selfish on my part! I still didn't like the situation at all, but I had to change my attitude about it and realize that it really wasn't up to me to decide for my parents.
Fast forward to 2008. Mom and Dad still live in Arizona (part of the year) in the same house they built back in 1977. It has been such a great move for them! I've even grown to love their house in Arizona and kind of consider it to be a second "home."
This week with my own family, I tossed out an idea (by e-mail) of potentially making a BIG change in our lives. It had to do with our annual New Year's Day pancake breakfast tradition. Was 30 years of doing it long enough? Was it time for this tradition to end? Well, now I think I know and understand a bit more how my parents may have felt back in 1977 when they offerred up a big change in their lives.
So, who's allowed to change? Only "the young and the restless," or is everyone (even us old people) allowed?
Praise God that we all have the "freedom" to change, and that we live in a country that is free (at least for now?) and allows each citizen to decide what is right/best for themselves! I am so thankful for that. But, what happens when someone you know and love (and are even closely related to) decides to make a change (big or small) in their life? Are you willing to put aside your selfishness and be open to that? What if the change doesn't appear to be a good one for them (in your opinion)? Can you still accept their change, try to understand it from their vantage point, and love them anyway? I wish that I could say that it is easier 31 years later to do so, but shamefully it isn't.
"What goes around, comes around" and "Turn about is fair play."
By the way, we ARE going to continue the New Year's Day pancake breakfast tradition at our house - at least for a few more years... :-)
In late December, 1976 (about seven months after I graduated from college), my parents' house on the farm burned to the ground (it was actually New Year's Eve, I think). Fortunately, both Mom and Dad were able to get out before the fire consumed their house completely. But, they lost a lot - not the least of which was their home and a lot of their belongings. Soon after the fire, some friends of theirs invited them to come to Arizona for some time away from winter in Iowa and the devastation of the fire. They stayed out there a week or two and had a great time. When they returned, they announced to my sisters and me that they had purchased a lot and were going to be building a house in Sun City. They were planning on moving there later that year.
What? What do you mean you are moving to Arizona? How dare you decide something like that without checking with me first? I'm not sure if my sisters were as upset/perplexed as I was since they were both already married and raising families and such. But I was only a few months out of college, working my first job and living in St. Louis. If they moved to Arizona, what if I wanted to go "home" to visit them? Arizona wasn't "home" - Iowa was my home! How dare they change my world like that? What were they thinking?
Then a small voice inside of me said, "Well, what about you? You moved to St. Louis and didn't check with them first before you did that. So what's the problem? Are you saying that YOU can change all you want and they just have to accept it, but they can't change anything in their life at all? Is that what you are saying?"
Wow. Talk about being caught up short. It really made me think. Who was I to decide what is best for them and/or try to manipulate what they could (or couldn't) do? Talk about selfish on my part! I still didn't like the situation at all, but I had to change my attitude about it and realize that it really wasn't up to me to decide for my parents.
Fast forward to 2008. Mom and Dad still live in Arizona (part of the year) in the same house they built back in 1977. It has been such a great move for them! I've even grown to love their house in Arizona and kind of consider it to be a second "home."
This week with my own family, I tossed out an idea (by e-mail) of potentially making a BIG change in our lives. It had to do with our annual New Year's Day pancake breakfast tradition. Was 30 years of doing it long enough? Was it time for this tradition to end? Well, now I think I know and understand a bit more how my parents may have felt back in 1977 when they offerred up a big change in their lives.
So, who's allowed to change? Only "the young and the restless," or is everyone (even us old people) allowed?
Praise God that we all have the "freedom" to change, and that we live in a country that is free (at least for now?) and allows each citizen to decide what is right/best for themselves! I am so thankful for that. But, what happens when someone you know and love (and are even closely related to) decides to make a change (big or small) in their life? Are you willing to put aside your selfishness and be open to that? What if the change doesn't appear to be a good one for them (in your opinion)? Can you still accept their change, try to understand it from their vantage point, and love them anyway? I wish that I could say that it is easier 31 years later to do so, but shamefully it isn't.
"What goes around, comes around" and "Turn about is fair play."
By the way, we ARE going to continue the New Year's Day pancake breakfast tradition at our house - at least for a few more years... :-)
Sunday, November 16, 2008
The Assassin of Character Creep
Back in late September of this year, I heard a man by the name of Mike Foster speak at a men's conference our church sponsored. He and his buddy Jud Wilhite have written a book called Deadly Viper Character Assassins. Good book. I am studying it with some men on Friday mornings, and I plan to give at least one copy to someone very special to me this Christmas.
Anyway, Mike's message on "Character Creep" was really good. I took some notes from his talk and that is what I'll share in this post.
His first point was that slip ups in the small things are what happen first as our character begins to creep. He said that we all need to make good decisions in the small things. Apparently it was discovered after the fact that the Titanic sank not because it hit an iceberg, but because of faulty rivets. The manufacturer of the Titanic cut corners big time with the rivets that held the steel in place on that large ship. When it hit the iceberg, the imperfections of those faulty rivets exposed themselves. Mike said that we can not cut corners; we should not take short cuts. He cited the story of Enron. The executives of that failed organization did not determine several years before it failed to put plans into place for failure. No, they were slowly cooked; they slowly faded into poor decision-making that eventually caused the failure. Mike told us that we need to manage our rivets. The strength of our character is cumulative.
His second point was that we all need to work hard for complete transparency. We need to avoid "image-management." Don't hide things from others; don't fool people. Don't even try. Someone is going to find out the truth. Don't pretend that everything is O.K. - especially if it really isn't. Be transparent at all times. Avoid managing your "image."
His third point was a really good one. He said that we need to refrain from doing anything today that we wouldn't want to read in the headlines (or see on a You Tube video) tomorrow. Wow. Think about that. What if what you did yesterday (or the day before) was in the headlines tomorrow. Would you be O.K. with that? Be diligent about your character. Be strategic knowing that everything you do and say reflects the current status of your character - both good and bad.
Finally, since Mike is a Christian and understands this value especially for believers, he said that we need to "do it in community." We all need other people in our lives speaking truth to us. Don't be blind to your compromises. True friends stab you in the front. If your Christian friends aren't saying anything to you right now, then you are in big trouble. Just like in athletics, if the coach isn't riding you hard, he may have already given up on you. There is a lot of talk about accountability in Christian circles these days. Mike says that people can fake accountability. Rather, we all need to be "advocates" for each other. Challenge one another to stronger character and more Christ-like actions! We also need to be willing to stand by someone we love through the good and the bad. But, that doesn't mean that we just accept their character creeps and fail to challenge them. No, we need to get right in the middle of our wounded and hurt soldiers' lives. We need them to know that nothing they would ever do would keep us from loving them. We might be really disappointed, but we will not abandon them. We will stand by them anyway, even when the times get tough.
Character creep. It can happen so easily to all of us. Thank God for Mike Foster and Jud Wilhite who authored a really great book. Thank God for calling each of us to take stock of our character. Character matters.
Anyway, Mike's message on "Character Creep" was really good. I took some notes from his talk and that is what I'll share in this post.
His first point was that slip ups in the small things are what happen first as our character begins to creep. He said that we all need to make good decisions in the small things. Apparently it was discovered after the fact that the Titanic sank not because it hit an iceberg, but because of faulty rivets. The manufacturer of the Titanic cut corners big time with the rivets that held the steel in place on that large ship. When it hit the iceberg, the imperfections of those faulty rivets exposed themselves. Mike said that we can not cut corners; we should not take short cuts. He cited the story of Enron. The executives of that failed organization did not determine several years before it failed to put plans into place for failure. No, they were slowly cooked; they slowly faded into poor decision-making that eventually caused the failure. Mike told us that we need to manage our rivets. The strength of our character is cumulative.
His second point was that we all need to work hard for complete transparency. We need to avoid "image-management." Don't hide things from others; don't fool people. Don't even try. Someone is going to find out the truth. Don't pretend that everything is O.K. - especially if it really isn't. Be transparent at all times. Avoid managing your "image."
His third point was a really good one. He said that we need to refrain from doing anything today that we wouldn't want to read in the headlines (or see on a You Tube video) tomorrow. Wow. Think about that. What if what you did yesterday (or the day before) was in the headlines tomorrow. Would you be O.K. with that? Be diligent about your character. Be strategic knowing that everything you do and say reflects the current status of your character - both good and bad.
Finally, since Mike is a Christian and understands this value especially for believers, he said that we need to "do it in community." We all need other people in our lives speaking truth to us. Don't be blind to your compromises. True friends stab you in the front. If your Christian friends aren't saying anything to you right now, then you are in big trouble. Just like in athletics, if the coach isn't riding you hard, he may have already given up on you. There is a lot of talk about accountability in Christian circles these days. Mike says that people can fake accountability. Rather, we all need to be "advocates" for each other. Challenge one another to stronger character and more Christ-like actions! We also need to be willing to stand by someone we love through the good and the bad. But, that doesn't mean that we just accept their character creeps and fail to challenge them. No, we need to get right in the middle of our wounded and hurt soldiers' lives. We need them to know that nothing they would ever do would keep us from loving them. We might be really disappointed, but we will not abandon them. We will stand by them anyway, even when the times get tough.
Character creep. It can happen so easily to all of us. Thank God for Mike Foster and Jud Wilhite who authored a really great book. Thank God for calling each of us to take stock of our character. Character matters.
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Everyone has their Top Ten
We are far enough along in the college football season now to start seeing the BCS Top Ten listing each week. I don't know about you, but I am always curious by Sunday afternoon/Monday morning to see who landed on their Top Ten. And then, all throughout the week, people around me (and possibly around you, too?) debate the merits of the Top Ten teams selected. We all wonder why certain teams are even there, or why certain teams are not. Being in the BCS Top Ten is a pretty big deal!
You probably have some sort of Top Ten list yourself. Like the Top Ten places I want to visit in my lifetime. Or, the Top Ten things I would buy if money were no object. Or, the Top Ten names I'd want to name my children. What kind of Top Ten list do you have? If you are older, you might have a list of the Top Ten things I want to do before I die. Since it is November and we are soon going to be thinking about Christmas (if you haven't started doing so already), maybe your Top Ten list is for gifts you'd like to receive from family and friends.
David Letterman has his Top Ten, too. As a matter of fact, he has become somewhat legendary for his Top Ten lists during the past 15+ years. His lists are usually funny and/or cynical things, usually at the expense of some poor soul (or some group of unfortunate people). It's kind of like you really don't ever want to be on his Top Ten lists!
So, just about everyone has a Top Ten list. Even God has His Top Ten.
God's Top Ten have been around for a long, long time - possibly 5,000 years? And, His list of Top Ten hasn't changed in that time. The same Ten are on it year after year after year. They must have been the right Ten since they've stood the test of time, don't you think?
Unlike David Letterman's Top Ten lists, God put the most important one first, and then the other nine fall neatly into place after that with some degree of diminishing importance. Just in case you haven't looked at God's Top Ten lately, I thought I'd remind you of them here (compliments of Eugene H. Peterson's writings in The Message - Exodus 20):
1. No other gods, only Me.
2. No carved gods of any size, shape, or form of anything whatever, whether of things that fly or walk or swim. Don't bow down to them and don't serve them because I am God, your God, and I'm a most jealous God, punishing the children for any sins their parents pass on to them to the third, and yes, even to the fourth generation of those who hate me. But I'm unswervingly loyal to the thousands who love me and keep my commandments.
3. No using the name of God, your god, in curses or silly banter; God won't put up with the irreverent use of His name.
4. Observe the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Work six days and do everything you need to do. But the seventh day is a Sabbath to God, your God. Don't do any work - not you, nor your son, nor your daughter, nor your servant, nor your maid, nor your animals, not even the foreign guest visiting in your town. For in six days God made Heaven, Earth, and sea, and everyting in them; He rested on the seventh day. Therefore God blessed the Sabbath day; He set it apart as a holy day.
5. Honor your father and mother so that you'll live a long time in the land that God, your God, is giving you.
6. No murder.
7. No adultery.
8. No stealing.
9. No lies about your neighbor.
10. No lusting after your neighbor's house - or wife or servant or maid or ox or donkey. Don't set your heart on anything that is your neighbor's.
It is amazing to me how these Top Ten, quite simple and written so long ago, still apply to us, even today. Oh, and by the way, they can be found in a book that has sold more copies than any other book ever in existence - the Bible. Good reading!
You probably have some sort of Top Ten list yourself. Like the Top Ten places I want to visit in my lifetime. Or, the Top Ten things I would buy if money were no object. Or, the Top Ten names I'd want to name my children. What kind of Top Ten list do you have? If you are older, you might have a list of the Top Ten things I want to do before I die. Since it is November and we are soon going to be thinking about Christmas (if you haven't started doing so already), maybe your Top Ten list is for gifts you'd like to receive from family and friends.
David Letterman has his Top Ten, too. As a matter of fact, he has become somewhat legendary for his Top Ten lists during the past 15+ years. His lists are usually funny and/or cynical things, usually at the expense of some poor soul (or some group of unfortunate people). It's kind of like you really don't ever want to be on his Top Ten lists!
So, just about everyone has a Top Ten list. Even God has His Top Ten.
God's Top Ten have been around for a long, long time - possibly 5,000 years? And, His list of Top Ten hasn't changed in that time. The same Ten are on it year after year after year. They must have been the right Ten since they've stood the test of time, don't you think?
Unlike David Letterman's Top Ten lists, God put the most important one first, and then the other nine fall neatly into place after that with some degree of diminishing importance. Just in case you haven't looked at God's Top Ten lately, I thought I'd remind you of them here (compliments of Eugene H. Peterson's writings in The Message - Exodus 20):
1. No other gods, only Me.
2. No carved gods of any size, shape, or form of anything whatever, whether of things that fly or walk or swim. Don't bow down to them and don't serve them because I am God, your God, and I'm a most jealous God, punishing the children for any sins their parents pass on to them to the third, and yes, even to the fourth generation of those who hate me. But I'm unswervingly loyal to the thousands who love me and keep my commandments.
3. No using the name of God, your god, in curses or silly banter; God won't put up with the irreverent use of His name.
4. Observe the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Work six days and do everything you need to do. But the seventh day is a Sabbath to God, your God. Don't do any work - not you, nor your son, nor your daughter, nor your servant, nor your maid, nor your animals, not even the foreign guest visiting in your town. For in six days God made Heaven, Earth, and sea, and everyting in them; He rested on the seventh day. Therefore God blessed the Sabbath day; He set it apart as a holy day.
5. Honor your father and mother so that you'll live a long time in the land that God, your God, is giving you.
6. No murder.
7. No adultery.
8. No stealing.
9. No lies about your neighbor.
10. No lusting after your neighbor's house - or wife or servant or maid or ox or donkey. Don't set your heart on anything that is your neighbor's.
It is amazing to me how these Top Ten, quite simple and written so long ago, still apply to us, even today. Oh, and by the way, they can be found in a book that has sold more copies than any other book ever in existence - the Bible. Good reading!
Sunday, November 2, 2008
You are what you eat...
When I was growing up, a common axiom that floated around quite a bit (at least in Iowa!) was "You are what you eat." I was always curious about that expression. Let's see, if I eat Oreos, then I become an Oreo? If I eat peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, then I become one? What did this axiom really mean?
Obviously, the expression "You are what you eat" was really meant to challenge people to think about what they were eating. Someone wanted all of us to understand that the foods we chose to eat determined (to a large degree) our overall health. I think this might have been the same someone who wanted us to understand that we needed to have a balance between all the food groups to be healthy. It couldn't all just be dairy, or protein, or chocolate (my wife has told me that chocolate is a food group all by itself!)! We needed balance.
For some reason, a similar axiom popped into my head last week. It was "You are what you read." In other words, what you choose to read determines your intellectual health and how you'll think. If you only read one type of communication (or from only one source of information), then you will think a lot like that one form of communication (and/or like that one source of information). For true intellectual health, we need balance. We need to read from many types of communication and from many sources of information. If we don't, our perspective gets skewed and we become unhealthy.
There's another axiom that is out there, namely "Garbage in, garbage out." That kind of applies to reading as well. If what we are reading is "garbage" then how we think will be "garbage" also.
That is why I like to have a healthy dose of Scripture every day. By reading God's Word EVERYDAY I am somewhat protected from a lot of the garbage that is out there polluting my thinking. You see, as a believer in Jesus Christ, I NEED to be reading the Bible everyday or else I'll get confused and maybe even "sick" from all the other stuff that is so easy to ingest.
You are what you read. Remember that this week.
So, what are you reading these days? Are you getting all of your food groups?
Obviously, the expression "You are what you eat" was really meant to challenge people to think about what they were eating. Someone wanted all of us to understand that the foods we chose to eat determined (to a large degree) our overall health. I think this might have been the same someone who wanted us to understand that we needed to have a balance between all the food groups to be healthy. It couldn't all just be dairy, or protein, or chocolate (my wife has told me that chocolate is a food group all by itself!)! We needed balance.
For some reason, a similar axiom popped into my head last week. It was "You are what you read." In other words, what you choose to read determines your intellectual health and how you'll think. If you only read one type of communication (or from only one source of information), then you will think a lot like that one form of communication (and/or like that one source of information). For true intellectual health, we need balance. We need to read from many types of communication and from many sources of information. If we don't, our perspective gets skewed and we become unhealthy.
There's another axiom that is out there, namely "Garbage in, garbage out." That kind of applies to reading as well. If what we are reading is "garbage" then how we think will be "garbage" also.
That is why I like to have a healthy dose of Scripture every day. By reading God's Word EVERYDAY I am somewhat protected from a lot of the garbage that is out there polluting my thinking. You see, as a believer in Jesus Christ, I NEED to be reading the Bible everyday or else I'll get confused and maybe even "sick" from all the other stuff that is so easy to ingest.
You are what you read. Remember that this week.
So, what are you reading these days? Are you getting all of your food groups?
Who is qualified?
Tuesday, November 4th, is election day in the United States. I am so grateful to God for the freedoms we enjoy in this country, including the great privilege to vote. I hope I'll never forget that it is a "privilege" and a duty, and one that I should not take lightly.
I already early-voted (hallelujah for that!), and this was my 10th opportunity to vote for President/Vice President of the United States. Hard to believe it has been that many already! Wow, how did that happen?!?
Every presidential election we have to make one choice, usually between one team of nominees for President/Vice President from the two major political parties. Too often I hear people say leading up to the election that they are unhappy with the choices they are given, and even question whether the candidates running are "qualified" to serve. Makes me wonder "Who is qualified?"
How easy it is for us to sit in our homes and offices and openly declare that someone is not qualified for a job that we know precious little about. For example, what is it that qualifies someone to be either President or Vice President? Is it written down somewhere? Has this list been in existence for awhile? Can you find it on Wikipedia? Who is it that determines what makes someone qualified to be President or Vice President of these United States?
How arrogant of us to decide whether someone we don't even know very much about (except for what the media gives us) is qualified or not qualified for the job. I wonder, am I qualified for the job I am currently doing? Somedays I think so, but most days I am just doing the best I can. Somedays the only thing that gets me through the day is "character" because I know that I am NOT qualified for the position. How about you? Are you qualified for the job you are currently holding? How do you know? Is there a list and you measure up well against that list? How would you like it if someone who knew very little about you and/or your job started spouting off to everyone about how unqualified YOU were for the position you now hold (or the next job you'd really like to have)? Hmmmm?
Next time you are tempted to make a snap judgment about someone else's qualifications, why don't you think about whether you'd like to be judged in the same way. And, don't forget "character" - because a person's character is what really determines how well they'll perform in certain jobs.
I already early-voted (hallelujah for that!), and this was my 10th opportunity to vote for President/Vice President of the United States. Hard to believe it has been that many already! Wow, how did that happen?!?
Every presidential election we have to make one choice, usually between one team of nominees for President/Vice President from the two major political parties. Too often I hear people say leading up to the election that they are unhappy with the choices they are given, and even question whether the candidates running are "qualified" to serve. Makes me wonder "Who is qualified?"
How easy it is for us to sit in our homes and offices and openly declare that someone is not qualified for a job that we know precious little about. For example, what is it that qualifies someone to be either President or Vice President? Is it written down somewhere? Has this list been in existence for awhile? Can you find it on Wikipedia? Who is it that determines what makes someone qualified to be President or Vice President of these United States?
How arrogant of us to decide whether someone we don't even know very much about (except for what the media gives us) is qualified or not qualified for the job. I wonder, am I qualified for the job I am currently doing? Somedays I think so, but most days I am just doing the best I can. Somedays the only thing that gets me through the day is "character" because I know that I am NOT qualified for the position. How about you? Are you qualified for the job you are currently holding? How do you know? Is there a list and you measure up well against that list? How would you like it if someone who knew very little about you and/or your job started spouting off to everyone about how unqualified YOU were for the position you now hold (or the next job you'd really like to have)? Hmmmm?
Next time you are tempted to make a snap judgment about someone else's qualifications, why don't you think about whether you'd like to be judged in the same way. And, don't forget "character" - because a person's character is what really determines how well they'll perform in certain jobs.
Sunday, October 26, 2008
The Muppet Movie and Chariots of Fire
The Muppet Movie and Chariots of Fire are two of my favorites. Great lines in each movie. This morning in church I was reminded of both of these movies.
In the Muppet Movie, I think it is Fozzie the Bear that says, "A bear in his natural habitat - a Studebaker." In Chariots of Fire, Eric Liddell says, "When I run, I feel God's pleasure."
This morning in church, as we were worshipping God and absolutely caught up in it, loving it, I kept thinking to myself the following:
"A Christian in his (or her) natural habitat - church."
"When I worship, I feel God's pleasure."
I hope you had the same fantastic experience I had today in your place of worship. FANTASTIC!
In the Muppet Movie, I think it is Fozzie the Bear that says, "A bear in his natural habitat - a Studebaker." In Chariots of Fire, Eric Liddell says, "When I run, I feel God's pleasure."
This morning in church, as we were worshipping God and absolutely caught up in it, loving it, I kept thinking to myself the following:
"A Christian in his (or her) natural habitat - church."
"When I worship, I feel God's pleasure."
I hope you had the same fantastic experience I had today in your place of worship. FANTASTIC!
The toughest job I've ever had...
In these current economic times, I am so grateful to have a job. A job that I like, a job that pays me well, and a job that I am still jazzed about (even after 30 years with the same company!). It's great to have a job and I work very hard at being successful at it. What a blessing!
However, that's not my only job. I also have the "job" of being a husband, an elder at Chase Oaks Church, and the leader of a Life Group (together with my wonderful wife, Ellen) at our church. I'm sure that there are more jobs I could list, but by far the toughest job I've ever had is that of being a Dad.
I love my children so much and want nothing but the best for each and every one of them. I care about them so much and have a constant interest in where they are, what they are doing and who they are becoming. I am so blessed to be their Dad and count it an immense privilege to be a part of their lives, even as they become adults and advance into making all decisions on their own completely.
The really difficult part of the job of being a Dad is knowing when to speak into their lives and when not to. I'm sure that parents have struggled with this for years and I'm not the first one to experience this. But, it is really, really hard to know what to do. When you care so much, when you want nothing but the best for them, where is the balance in "letting go completely" and still wanting them to hear your voice?
You see, for many years that was your job - to train them, to teach them, to discipline them, to challenge them, to feed them, to provide for them, etc. Then all of a sudden, most of that becomes less of what you need to be doing. If you really love and care for them, you need to let go and let them be completely on their own. But, that part doesn't happen instantly. It happens more gradually. And all the while you are continually struggling with "Was that the right thing to do?" - "Was that enough - too much?". It's really hard to know.
My biggest consolation is this. These children that were given to me by God really belong to Him. He cares for them even more than I do. He loves them even more than I do. Even if I mess up as their Dad, God can make it right. I still have a part to play in their lives (Praise God for that!), but the results are not up to me. God has a plan for each of their lives and He will accomplish it in His time.
If you are not a Dad (a parent) yet, you may not be able to understand what I am saying here completely. But, hopefully some day you'll have that privilege, and then maybe you'll know a little bit more about what I am talking about...
However, that's not my only job. I also have the "job" of being a husband, an elder at Chase Oaks Church, and the leader of a Life Group (together with my wonderful wife, Ellen) at our church. I'm sure that there are more jobs I could list, but by far the toughest job I've ever had is that of being a Dad.
I love my children so much and want nothing but the best for each and every one of them. I care about them so much and have a constant interest in where they are, what they are doing and who they are becoming. I am so blessed to be their Dad and count it an immense privilege to be a part of their lives, even as they become adults and advance into making all decisions on their own completely.
The really difficult part of the job of being a Dad is knowing when to speak into their lives and when not to. I'm sure that parents have struggled with this for years and I'm not the first one to experience this. But, it is really, really hard to know what to do. When you care so much, when you want nothing but the best for them, where is the balance in "letting go completely" and still wanting them to hear your voice?
You see, for many years that was your job - to train them, to teach them, to discipline them, to challenge them, to feed them, to provide for them, etc. Then all of a sudden, most of that becomes less of what you need to be doing. If you really love and care for them, you need to let go and let them be completely on their own. But, that part doesn't happen instantly. It happens more gradually. And all the while you are continually struggling with "Was that the right thing to do?" - "Was that enough - too much?". It's really hard to know.
My biggest consolation is this. These children that were given to me by God really belong to Him. He cares for them even more than I do. He loves them even more than I do. Even if I mess up as their Dad, God can make it right. I still have a part to play in their lives (Praise God for that!), but the results are not up to me. God has a plan for each of their lives and He will accomplish it in His time.
If you are not a Dad (a parent) yet, you may not be able to understand what I am saying here completely. But, hopefully some day you'll have that privilege, and then maybe you'll know a little bit more about what I am talking about...
Saturday, October 25, 2008
Nothing is Black & White?
All of us have a world view. All of us gravitate towards people who appear to have a similar world view. We may even want to think we are "open-minded." But, the reality is (if we are honest with ourselves) that each one of us is constantly on the lookout for people who support and confirm our particular world view (and our presuppositions). When we find someone who agrees with us (and supports our already determined point of view), we are all the more convinced that our world view is correct.
Politics and elections do funny things to people. During most election seasons, people's true colors really begin to show. What has been thought about in the privacy of our own minds, and perhaps in the company of a few close friends, comes out in who we choose to support and/or vote for.
Unfortunately, moral relativism is alive and well in our country, especially during this election season. Well-meaning people are whole-heartedly submitting to this dangerous philosophy, maybe without even realizing they are doing so. What is moral relativism? It can be described as "a view that ethical standards, morality and positions of right and wrong are culturally based, and therefore subject to a person's individual choice." In other words, moral relativism says that we can all decide what is right for ourselves. You decide what is right for you, and I'll decide what is right for me. Moral relativism says, "It's true for me if I believe it."
In today's society, it is not the politically correct thing to say that some things are right and other things are wrong. But, it's true. According to the Bible, some things ARE right, and other things are just plain WRONG! Morals and ethics are not altered from one situation, person or circumstance to the next. Truth is truth. It always has been.
For example, abortion is murder. Homosexuality is wrong. Marriage is only between one man and one woman. Sex before marriage is wrong. Lying is wrong. Cheating is wrong. Period.
These absolutes do not change or get altered depending on the situation, or based on who is involved (and their motives), or because of the circumstances you find yourself in. Wrong is wrong. Truth is truth.
I am a believer in Jesus Christ. I believe that the Bible is God's Word, and that it is truth. This is unapologetically my world view. So, at the risk of alienating people I know and love, I am telling you in this post that the idea that "nothing is black & white" is just plain wrong. It's moral relativism.
Politics and elections do funny things to people. During most election seasons, people's true colors really begin to show. What has been thought about in the privacy of our own minds, and perhaps in the company of a few close friends, comes out in who we choose to support and/or vote for.
Unfortunately, moral relativism is alive and well in our country, especially during this election season. Well-meaning people are whole-heartedly submitting to this dangerous philosophy, maybe without even realizing they are doing so. What is moral relativism? It can be described as "a view that ethical standards, morality and positions of right and wrong are culturally based, and therefore subject to a person's individual choice." In other words, moral relativism says that we can all decide what is right for ourselves. You decide what is right for you, and I'll decide what is right for me. Moral relativism says, "It's true for me if I believe it."
In today's society, it is not the politically correct thing to say that some things are right and other things are wrong. But, it's true. According to the Bible, some things ARE right, and other things are just plain WRONG! Morals and ethics are not altered from one situation, person or circumstance to the next. Truth is truth. It always has been.
For example, abortion is murder. Homosexuality is wrong. Marriage is only between one man and one woman. Sex before marriage is wrong. Lying is wrong. Cheating is wrong. Period.
These absolutes do not change or get altered depending on the situation, or based on who is involved (and their motives), or because of the circumstances you find yourself in. Wrong is wrong. Truth is truth.
I am a believer in Jesus Christ. I believe that the Bible is God's Word, and that it is truth. This is unapologetically my world view. So, at the risk of alienating people I know and love, I am telling you in this post that the idea that "nothing is black & white" is just plain wrong. It's moral relativism.
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Are you a leader?
"If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
How about you? Are you a leader? Who are you inspiring to dream more? Who are you inspiring to learn more? Who are you inspiring to do more? Who are you inspiring to become more? We all have a tendency to want this kind of leadership from others, but what are each of us doing to help fill the big leadership void in this world ourselves? Think about it...
How about you? Are you a leader? Who are you inspiring to dream more? Who are you inspiring to learn more? Who are you inspiring to do more? Who are you inspiring to become more? We all have a tendency to want this kind of leadership from others, but what are each of us doing to help fill the big leadership void in this world ourselves? Think about it...
I agree with Jay Leno and David Letterman (actually Craig Smith?), too
This was written by Craig R. Smith on November 20, 2006. But, it has sometimes been attributed to either Jay Leno or David Letterman. They may have eluded to this in one of their monologues at some point. The original is worth revisiting:
"The other day I was reading Newsweek magazine and came across some poll data I found rather hard to believe. It must be true given the source, right? The same magazine that employs Michael (Qurans in the toilets at Gitmo) Isikoff. Here I promised myself this week I would be nice and I start off in this way. Oh what a mean man I am.
The Newsweek poll alleges that 67 percent of Americans are unhappy with the direction the country is headed and 69 percent of the country is unhappy with the performance of the president. In essence 2/3's of the citizenry just ain't happy and want a change.
So being the knuckle dragger I am, I starting thinking, ''What we are so unhappy about?''
Is it that we have electricity and running water 24 hours a day, 7 days a week? Is our unhappiness the result of having air conditioning in the summer and heating in the winter? Could it be that 95.4 percent of these unhappy folks have a job? Maybe it is the ability to walk into a grocery store at any time and see more food in moments than Darfur has seen in the last year?
Maybe it is the ability to drive from the Pacific Ocean to the Atlantic Ocean without having to present identification papers as we move through each state? Or possibly the hundreds of clean and safe motels we would find along the way that can provide temporary shelter? I guess having thousands of restaurants with varying cuisine from around the world is just not good enough. Or could it be that when we wreck our car, emergency workers show up and provide services to help all involved. Whether you are rich or poor they treat your wounds and even, if necessary, send a helicopter to take you to the hospital.
Perhaps you are one of the 70 percent of Americans who own a home, you may be upset with knowing that in the unfortunate case of having a fire, a group of trained firefighters will appear in moments and use top notch equipment to extinguish the flames thus saving you, your family and your belongings. Or if, while at home watching one of your many flat screen TV's, a burglar or prowler intrudes; an officer equipped with a gun and a bullet-proof vest will come to defend you and your family against attack or loss. This all in the backdrop of a neighborhood free of bombs or militias raping and pillaging the residents. Neighborhoods where 90 percent of teenagers own cell phones and computers.
How about the complete religious, social and political freedoms we enjoy that are the envy of everyone in the world? Maybe that is what has 67 percent of you folks unhappy.
Fact is, we are the largest group of ungrateful, spoiled brats the world has ever seen.
No wonder the world loves the U.S. yet has a great disdain for its citizens. They see us for what we are. The most blessed people in the world who do nothing but complain about what we don't have and what we hate about the country instead of thanking the good Lord we live here.
I know, I know. What about the president who took us into war and has no plan to get us out? The president who has a measly 31 percent approval rating? Is this the same president who guided the nation in the dark days after 9/11? The president that cut taxes to bring an economy out of recession? Could this be the same guy who has been called every name in the book for succeeding in keeping all the spoiled brats safe from terrorist attacks? The commander in chief of an all-volunteer army that is out there defending you and me?
Make no mistake about it. The troops in Iraq and Afghanistan have volunteered to serve, and in many cases have died for your freedom. There is currently no draft in this country. They didn't have to go. They are able to refuse to go and end up with either a ''general'' discharge, an ''other than honorable'' discharge or, worst case scenario, a ''dishonorable'' discharge after a few days in the brig.
So why then the flat out discontentment in the minds of 69 percent of Americans? Say what you want but I blame it on the media. If it bleeds it leads and they specialize in bad news. Everybody will watch a car crash with blood and guts. How many will watch kids selling lemonade at the corner? The media knows this and media outlets are for-profit corporations. They offer what sells. Just ask why they are going to allow a murderer like O.J. Simpson to write a book and do a TV special about how he didn't kill his wife but if he did … insane!
Stop buying the negative venom you are fed everyday by the media. Shut off the TV, burn Newsweek, and use the New York Times for the bottom of your bird cage. Then start being grateful for all we have as a country. There is exponentially more good than bad.
I close with one of my favorite quotes from B.C. Forbes in 1953:
''What have Americans to be thankful for? More than any other people on the earth, we enjoy complete religious freedom, political freedom, social freedom. Our liberties are sacredly safeguarded by the Constitution of the United States, 'the most wonderful work ever struck off at a given time by the brain and purpose of man.' Yes, we Americans of today have been bequeathed a noble heritage. Let us pray that we may hand it down unsullied to our children and theirs.''
I suggest this Thanksgiving we sit back and count our blessings for all we have. If we don't, what we have will be taken away. Then we will have to explain to future generations why we squandered such blessing and abundance. If we are not careful this generation will be known as the ''greediest and most ungrateful generation.'' A far cry from the proud Americans of the ''greatest generation'' who left us an untarnished legacy.
Craig R. Smith is an author, commentator and popular media guest because he instantly engages audiences with his common-sense analyses of local, national and global trends. Serving as CEO of Swiss America for over 25 years, Craig understands that Americans want solid answers to the tough questions and that real leadership begins with servanthood. Craig's most recent book is "Black Gold Stranglehold: The Myth of Scarcity and the Politics of Oil," which he co-authored with WND columnist Jerome R. Corsi.
"The other day I was reading Newsweek magazine and came across some poll data I found rather hard to believe. It must be true given the source, right? The same magazine that employs Michael (Qurans in the toilets at Gitmo) Isikoff. Here I promised myself this week I would be nice and I start off in this way. Oh what a mean man I am.
The Newsweek poll alleges that 67 percent of Americans are unhappy with the direction the country is headed and 69 percent of the country is unhappy with the performance of the president. In essence 2/3's of the citizenry just ain't happy and want a change.
So being the knuckle dragger I am, I starting thinking, ''What we are so unhappy about?''
Is it that we have electricity and running water 24 hours a day, 7 days a week? Is our unhappiness the result of having air conditioning in the summer and heating in the winter? Could it be that 95.4 percent of these unhappy folks have a job? Maybe it is the ability to walk into a grocery store at any time and see more food in moments than Darfur has seen in the last year?
Maybe it is the ability to drive from the Pacific Ocean to the Atlantic Ocean without having to present identification papers as we move through each state? Or possibly the hundreds of clean and safe motels we would find along the way that can provide temporary shelter? I guess having thousands of restaurants with varying cuisine from around the world is just not good enough. Or could it be that when we wreck our car, emergency workers show up and provide services to help all involved. Whether you are rich or poor they treat your wounds and even, if necessary, send a helicopter to take you to the hospital.
Perhaps you are one of the 70 percent of Americans who own a home, you may be upset with knowing that in the unfortunate case of having a fire, a group of trained firefighters will appear in moments and use top notch equipment to extinguish the flames thus saving you, your family and your belongings. Or if, while at home watching one of your many flat screen TV's, a burglar or prowler intrudes; an officer equipped with a gun and a bullet-proof vest will come to defend you and your family against attack or loss. This all in the backdrop of a neighborhood free of bombs or militias raping and pillaging the residents. Neighborhoods where 90 percent of teenagers own cell phones and computers.
How about the complete religious, social and political freedoms we enjoy that are the envy of everyone in the world? Maybe that is what has 67 percent of you folks unhappy.
Fact is, we are the largest group of ungrateful, spoiled brats the world has ever seen.
No wonder the world loves the U.S. yet has a great disdain for its citizens. They see us for what we are. The most blessed people in the world who do nothing but complain about what we don't have and what we hate about the country instead of thanking the good Lord we live here.
I know, I know. What about the president who took us into war and has no plan to get us out? The president who has a measly 31 percent approval rating? Is this the same president who guided the nation in the dark days after 9/11? The president that cut taxes to bring an economy out of recession? Could this be the same guy who has been called every name in the book for succeeding in keeping all the spoiled brats safe from terrorist attacks? The commander in chief of an all-volunteer army that is out there defending you and me?
Make no mistake about it. The troops in Iraq and Afghanistan have volunteered to serve, and in many cases have died for your freedom. There is currently no draft in this country. They didn't have to go. They are able to refuse to go and end up with either a ''general'' discharge, an ''other than honorable'' discharge or, worst case scenario, a ''dishonorable'' discharge after a few days in the brig.
So why then the flat out discontentment in the minds of 69 percent of Americans? Say what you want but I blame it on the media. If it bleeds it leads and they specialize in bad news. Everybody will watch a car crash with blood and guts. How many will watch kids selling lemonade at the corner? The media knows this and media outlets are for-profit corporations. They offer what sells. Just ask why they are going to allow a murderer like O.J. Simpson to write a book and do a TV special about how he didn't kill his wife but if he did … insane!
Stop buying the negative venom you are fed everyday by the media. Shut off the TV, burn Newsweek, and use the New York Times for the bottom of your bird cage. Then start being grateful for all we have as a country. There is exponentially more good than bad.
I close with one of my favorite quotes from B.C. Forbes in 1953:
''What have Americans to be thankful for? More than any other people on the earth, we enjoy complete religious freedom, political freedom, social freedom. Our liberties are sacredly safeguarded by the Constitution of the United States, 'the most wonderful work ever struck off at a given time by the brain and purpose of man.' Yes, we Americans of today have been bequeathed a noble heritage. Let us pray that we may hand it down unsullied to our children and theirs.''
I suggest this Thanksgiving we sit back and count our blessings for all we have. If we don't, what we have will be taken away. Then we will have to explain to future generations why we squandered such blessing and abundance. If we are not careful this generation will be known as the ''greediest and most ungrateful generation.'' A far cry from the proud Americans of the ''greatest generation'' who left us an untarnished legacy.
Craig R. Smith is an author, commentator and popular media guest because he instantly engages audiences with his common-sense analyses of local, national and global trends. Serving as CEO of Swiss America for over 25 years, Craig understands that Americans want solid answers to the tough questions and that real leadership begins with servanthood. Craig's most recent book is "Black Gold Stranglehold: The Myth of Scarcity and the Politics of Oil," which he co-authored with WND columnist Jerome R. Corsi.
Sunday, October 12, 2008
I agree with Solomon - Part 1
If you could learn something (anything!) from the richest man who ever lived, would you? If you could benefit from the wisdom of the smartest man who ever lived, would you do that? Seems like a slam-dunk, doesn't it? We'd be foolish not to take advantage of this rich man, smart man's experience and knowledge.
Well, I have good news for you! I'm about to tell you something that this rich man, smart man said. It is recorded in the Bible, the Book of Ecclesiastes, and King Solomon is the one who wrote it. Here's what he said in Chapter 1, verse 9: "That which has been is that which will be, And that which has been done is that which will be done. So there is nothing new under the sun."
I am both amused and frustrated these days with people who think that they are so clever, so intelligent, so creative and so revolutionary. There are so many people who seriously think that they are doing things today that have never been done or never been discovered before. That somehow they are "improving" our world, and that what they are doing is so much better than what has been done in the past. How foolish. How thoughtless. How naive.
Solomon got it. He achieved great wealth. I mean, wealth beyond description! He also achieved great wisdom. People actually traveled really long distances to hear what he had to say. He did more than any of us could ever dream of doing. He built things. He experienced things. He tried it all. And yet, he pretty much discounted everything he built, experienced and/or tried in the end. It became tiresome, futile to him. Every new thing he thought could bring him that next great pleasure, that next amazing achievement, that next incredible experience, just disappointed him again. He called it vanity. Vanity of vanities.
There is nothing new under the sun. If someone is trying to tell you different, they're lying. Or they're trying to sell you something. Or they're not as smart as you think they are. Don't be fooled. Don't be duped. Be wise. Understand what Solomon had to say.
So, what are we to do then with this truism that Solomon gave us? Why don't we look at what he said at the end of his life for some clues. Let's look at the Book of Ecclesiastes again, Chapter 12, verses 13 and 14: "The conclusion, when all has been heard, is: fear God and keep His commandments, because this applies to every person. For God will bring every act to judgment, everything which is hidden, whether it is good or evil."
Well, I have good news for you! I'm about to tell you something that this rich man, smart man said. It is recorded in the Bible, the Book of Ecclesiastes, and King Solomon is the one who wrote it. Here's what he said in Chapter 1, verse 9: "That which has been is that which will be, And that which has been done is that which will be done. So there is nothing new under the sun."
I am both amused and frustrated these days with people who think that they are so clever, so intelligent, so creative and so revolutionary. There are so many people who seriously think that they are doing things today that have never been done or never been discovered before. That somehow they are "improving" our world, and that what they are doing is so much better than what has been done in the past. How foolish. How thoughtless. How naive.
Solomon got it. He achieved great wealth. I mean, wealth beyond description! He also achieved great wisdom. People actually traveled really long distances to hear what he had to say. He did more than any of us could ever dream of doing. He built things. He experienced things. He tried it all. And yet, he pretty much discounted everything he built, experienced and/or tried in the end. It became tiresome, futile to him. Every new thing he thought could bring him that next great pleasure, that next amazing achievement, that next incredible experience, just disappointed him again. He called it vanity. Vanity of vanities.
There is nothing new under the sun. If someone is trying to tell you different, they're lying. Or they're trying to sell you something. Or they're not as smart as you think they are. Don't be fooled. Don't be duped. Be wise. Understand what Solomon had to say.
So, what are we to do then with this truism that Solomon gave us? Why don't we look at what he said at the end of his life for some clues. Let's look at the Book of Ecclesiastes again, Chapter 12, verses 13 and 14: "The conclusion, when all has been heard, is: fear God and keep His commandments, because this applies to every person. For God will bring every act to judgment, everything which is hidden, whether it is good or evil."
Sunday musings...
Where do I begin? I've been thinking and praying and pondering this blog idea ever since Andy gave me this gift for my birthday on September 30th. Being the logical guy that I am, I've been wondering about answers to the following questions: Why should I write? Who am I writing to? Who will actually be interested in reading this? When do I fit this activity into an already too busy schedule? Is this going to be the best use of my time? Can an old guy like me really be a blogger? Etc.
Well, I think you get the general idea. While blogging comes very naturally to some of you younger folks out there, not so much for me. I feel very self-conscious about it. Seems like I am going to potentially put a very private/hidden part of me "out there" for all of you to read/see. Not sure if I really like that very much. But, it is amazing how many ideas for blogs have been rushing into my head since I knew that I had a place to put them! Wow! The power of the pen! I just looked at my growing list of "ideas for blogs" (Remember? Make a list?) and it totaled 15! So, I guess I really do need to blog. I'm putting my reluctance aside and giving it a try.
Since I am a man of "patterns" and a creature of habit, I understand the benefits of routines (even though there can be some big drawbacks to routines, as well), this is how I'm going to try to make this work. I'll collect ideas throughout the weeks, and then on Sundays look for an opportunity to craft them, refine them and post them on this blog. What the heck. What's the worst thing that could happen? People finding out more about someone they think they know and love, but maybe don't understand completely? Trusting God for the results, I'm taking the plunge. Here goes!
Well, I think you get the general idea. While blogging comes very naturally to some of you younger folks out there, not so much for me. I feel very self-conscious about it. Seems like I am going to potentially put a very private/hidden part of me "out there" for all of you to read/see. Not sure if I really like that very much. But, it is amazing how many ideas for blogs have been rushing into my head since I knew that I had a place to put them! Wow! The power of the pen! I just looked at my growing list of "ideas for blogs" (Remember? Make a list?) and it totaled 15! So, I guess I really do need to blog. I'm putting my reluctance aside and giving it a try.
Since I am a man of "patterns" and a creature of habit, I understand the benefits of routines (even though there can be some big drawbacks to routines, as well), this is how I'm going to try to make this work. I'll collect ideas throughout the weeks, and then on Sundays look for an opportunity to craft them, refine them and post them on this blog. What the heck. What's the worst thing that could happen? People finding out more about someone they think they know and love, but maybe don't understand completely? Trusting God for the results, I'm taking the plunge. Here goes!
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Happy Birthday Dad
For quite a while I have been encouraging my father that he needed a blog. Not because I wanted to try and be the progressive son that brought him into the Web 2.0 era, no, that wasn't it at all. But because I have long had the benefit of the wisdom that he speaks and the encouragement that he gives and I wanted the world to have the same chance to gain from his perspective.
Now, while it is a birthday present to him that I set up this blog, it is truly a gift to those that read his thoughts and are inspired by his understanding of the world.
With that, I am going to turn this blog over to my dad and let the good times ensue.
(guest blogger - Andy E.)
Now, while it is a birthday present to him that I set up this blog, it is truly a gift to those that read his thoughts and are inspired by his understanding of the world.
With that, I am going to turn this blog over to my dad and let the good times ensue.
(guest blogger - Andy E.)
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